Here are some tips That Help find Your way back to your Sane Heart

*know the limitations between admiration,infatuation,  and real love.Or else, you might just wake up one morning finding out you’re madly in love with him. Only okey when he feels that the way too–if not, then be aware of the #02.

*Dont push yourself too much, darling.Emotional sensitiveness can trap you in a way you’ll find it hard to get out.Every gentle gesture of him will turn out to be something meaningful towards you.What if it’s only natural for him?Like those super-romantico and sweet-like-honeypie guys.Expecting something thaf will only hurt you at the end.

*Be contented with your closeness if you’re to him.Don’t adk for more which will only make you sick of thingking. You should be happy with the situation instead.Considering that their are those who wished to be on  your shoes.Free to see, talk and laugh with the one they love so much.

*stay cool and be natural.You don’TTF have to act differently for the benifit of his presence.It won’t be that easy but not impossible.Never do the first move,it will only ruin you.Much better knowing the person first and so you can find your place in his heart.

*if you wanted him off your mind,  then avoid reading steamy romance novels,  watching T.V love stories, or just listening to certain kinds of music ’cause it can worsen your feelings and loneliness.Don’t pour all your feelings,  keep some for yourself also.Remember that love isn’t only blind,  it can even  insane & unrequited.

Always stick this in your mind , that real love does not happen overnight or not hurt by time. Often, the best way to test out your emotion for someone is to let some time pass. It grows stronger with time and becomes “a perfect bond union “(colossians3.14)

The pain of love also not a thorn.It is a firm challenging lesson everyone ought to learn. The effect on you it that it takes you a better  person ’cause it is with love we can find the real meaning of the life we’re living.

(This tackles more on the women side due to the fact that they’re more weak when it comes in controlling emotions)

Right Love at a Wrong Time

When was the last time you found out you’re ready to engage yourself,in the a relationship but you failed cause no matter how eager your longings,it is still wrong.Wrong in a way that the object of your affection does not feel the way you have felt for him.

Then…what if the one happens to be so close to you at the way?Well,there were lots of situations or stories regarding friendship that turn into something intimate and platonic maybe.Sometimes it may end up the story happily ever or sadness after.Good!Yet,what about if you just happen to be his’her punching bag.A person who’s ready to listen all his anguish and happiness with someone else.It would be flattering for he trust you,but tormenting on the other end because the feeling you’re keeping inside will possible remain forever there.That’s kinda painful to the max,huh! Then came a point of being desperate and hopeless give you so much botherings.Some say,”who cares,he’s not the only living Adam.Sure I’m going to meet a lots of them sooner.”What a very confident idea!But you’re sure it’s just okey? Sure not to start thingking of some radio,music and my pillow stuffs?The radio that listens your frustration…The music that suits the emptiness…And the pillow that holds the tears you cried on? (Ouch,you’re so corny naman!)Bitaw…just wait gor the cupid stupid arrow sucks you straightly and you’ll see what ‘s  that corny thing all about .Because no matter how smart and intelligent you are ,when love strikes , you something lose your sensibilities.

ESSAYS

Every drop of ink portrays something

Something so intense yet so frightening

Something that harbors love and hate

And sometimes also affection and guilt

You are the only one who can decipher

Sometimes that it puts you down and gets you under.

May you always have

May You Always Have

enough JOY to keep your heart singing,

enough SORROW to give you UNDERSTANDING,

enough HOPE to enrich your VISION.…

enough TRIALS to keep you STRONG,

enough LEISURE to refresh your SPIRITS,

enough LOVE to keep yot world beautiful…